> Raise voice somewhat, but still keep sympathetic tone.
> Put on a pained and sympathetic expression.
> "I'm trying to tell you you're right! I know it's hard for you to see it! For as long as you've lived, you've thought self-exposition was a terrible thing! I understand that! But surely you've also always thought your being alive was a good thing! And that's because it is! And now these two inherent truths are conflicting, and I can only imagine how terrible it must be for you! I'm so sorry things had to come to this! I know it's hard! But I know you can pull through it! I know better than just about everyone that you have the determination to pull through a difficult situation! I stand here telling you your origin, how the reason you think many of the things you think are because the people that willed you into existence believed you thought them. And so you do think them. But that was before you were even alive! You didn't decide it! Please, please think the situation through! Take a look at these two conflicting ideas! You can pick the one thrust upon you by others, or you can pick the one that you figured out on your own, you as your own person, making your own decisions, with your own mind, with no one else telling you what's right and what's wrong! You can deny what those that created you thought you thought was correct! Because you won't be admitting that you were wrong! There's no shame in rejecting what you did not choose! Pick the one that you know is right!"