//Anyway, I think the fundamental issue here is that I disagree that absolutely everything we do with someone else requires permission. I think many things do, but not everything, and I think this is one such thing that does not require permission. This is why I made no effort to do those things you pointed out - I did not and still do not think they are necessary. I believe that if Youmu had any sort of problem with this, she would have said or thought about it at some point, particularly after she saw the large fish (another reason why I did that). If she gets upset with me after the fact, then oh well, we undo it and apologize then, but I really don't think she will (especially if I cast a miracle that makes the sensations pleasant), and everything else about the system is set up to keep everyone involved (both Youmu and fishies) safe. As such, there are no problems with things as structured, as far as I'm concerned, and the current setup amuses me, so I wish to continue with it.
//As for telling Youmu we were going to sleep, that was to let her know that she wouldn't be able to contact us anymore, and that she was free to do whatever she wanted/needed while the "automated" magic help system in place took care of her and kept her safe. It was designed to confirm to her that it was okay to go to sleep.