Well, my partner got me into Touhou in the first place, so he obviously plays the games. We occasionally play PoFV against each other, and seeing how we're moving together this summer, we will probably play even more PoFV than before.
And I also have a couple of friends who play the games, and have varying skill levels. It's rather funny to discuss about gameplay stuff with them, and occasionally we even discuss about the fandom-side of things. But that's rather rare. Or, well, at least we listen to music and arranges a lot, and sometimes comment on it, so I guess you could say that it's fandom stuff.
There is also a rather large Touhou community in Finland, they arrange meetings a couple of times a year, and even have their own forums. However, the community in Finland mainly consists of teenager otaku girls, who are all into cosplay and fanstuff and never play the games. Also, most of them are lesbians, and they all date each other within this really wicked Beauty and the Bold-circle. There also are a couple of other fans to the Finnish community, and I like to talk with them if I go to the meetings. They're mostly adult men like me, and like hentaimanga and anime, and actually play the games, instead of just talking about how interesting personality Minoriko has. All I know is that Minoriko's final card is annoying.+-